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a little bit married

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when

April – June 2021

what

A small-wedding project. We designed the day ourselves as a meal shared with about ten guests, and built a web archive and a gift-funding service for it.

A web archive holding the stories around the wedding

· a record of who the two of us are and how we came this far · a place anyone can visit and read anytime, including those we couldn't invite

A gift-funding service in place of cash gifts

· pooling many people's goodwill into the one gift the couple truly needs · guests pick a gift and chip in toward it together

why

We had no fantasy of a wedding, but we did want to find its meaning. To us, a wedding was a place to announce our beginning and to reaffirm the relationships we had kept close. So instead of a big ceremony, we made a small gathering, sharing a meal with about ten guests, and skipped what gets done only by convention: bridal gifts, a studio shoot, even the formal meeting of the families. Then we solved the problems that come with being small in our own way. Since we couldn't invite most people, we built an open web archive of who we are and how we came this far. Since cash gifts felt awkward and dull, we built a funding service that pools many people's goodwill into one gift that's truly needed. Where convention was cleared away, we filled the day with experiences we could build ourselves.

how

Run end to end like a real project. · designing the day: from booking the venue to composing the reception and choosing the wine ourselves, with printed materials designed and produced by hand · web archive: built on Notion, where all the wedding prep already lived, from introductions of the two of us to an FAQ · gift funding: a web service where guests chip in toward a chosen gift, developed ourselves, clearing the hurdles of Korean payment integration along the way · the record: even the missteps and quarrels of the process went into the archive